Gospel Friendships

1 Thessalonians Evangelism World Religions

The most effective type of evangelism with people of other faiths is through established friendships. To share the good news, you need to establish a good relationship. 

Not Enemies

  • The gospel and goodwill are not enemies of one another. 
  • To share the gospel with someone doesn’t mean you have to be rude.
  • Being kind to someone doesn’t mean you must water down the message.
  • You must learn the secret of having evangelistic friendships or displaying friendly evangelism.

1 Thessalonians 2:7-12

  • When Paul’s mission team arrived in Thessalonica, they were labeled as those who “turned the world upside down” (Acts 17:6), and that reputation served them well. 
  • As they shared the gospel with the citizens, they witnessed many conversions. 
  • The change in the area was so noticeable that opponents persecuted them greatly. 
  • In fear that such hard times would trouble new believers, Paul fled from the city to reduce the tension (Acts 17:10).

Gentleness

  • Instead of burdening the people, they cared for them (2:7). 
  • He knew we all need gentle caretakers to help us develop as we follow Christ. 
  • All mature and immature believers need intentional, patient, loving, and endearing people to further our discipleship. 

Presence

  • Paul mentioned giving the church two key things: Christ’s gospel and his example (2:8). 
  • Delivering information without presence is impersonal. 
  • It’s unfaithful to befriend someone without giving them the news that can change their life. 

Credibility

  • We cannot be saved without the gospel, but most people receive the gospel from someone with established credibility. 
  • You cannot simply claim you love someone if you are unwilling to share God’s love with them. 
  • Evangelism takes proclamation (gospel) and incarnation (presence).

    Love

  • We only love someone ultimately once we become intentional about their spiritual condition. 
  • The gospel is the power of God for salvation (Rom. 1:16), but our care often creates the potential to be heard. 
  • Be present in the lives around you, and share with them the message of the life that can change theirs.
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