Kindness isn’t just about being nice; it’s about being intentional. The Holy Spirit grows kindness in us so that our lives can reflect the compassion of Christ in practical ways.
Kindness is one of the attributes listed in the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), and it may be one of the most underestimated. In a culture full of sarcasm, speed, and self-focus, kindness stands out more than ever. But here’s the thing, real kindness isn’t just about being polite. It’s about showing up, stepping in, and serving someone when it costs you something.
And that kind of kindness doesn’t come from personality. It comes from the Holy Spirit.
What’s the Opposite?
The opposite of kindness is cruelty, and it often doesn’t look as harsh as you’d expect.
Cruelty can sound like gossip, feel like apathy, or hide behind convenience. It’s ignoring someone’s need because you’re too busy. It’s choosing a harsh word because it’s easier. It’s assuming the worst instead of offering the benefit of the doubt.
Kindness interrupts that. It sees others, not just as people to tolerate, but as people to love.
The Spirit shifts our posture from indifferent to invested.
Kindness That Gets Involved
In Mark 1, Jesus meets a man with leprosy, a person society avoided and labeled untouchable. The man says, “If you’re willing, you can make me clean.” And Jesus, filled with compassion, touches him and heals him.
That’s kindness. Not just healing from a distance, but entering the moment with presence and love.
Jesus didn’t avoid the mess; He stepped right into it. And the Spirit invites us to do the same in the lives of others.
How to Know You’re Growing in Kindness
Kindness isn’t loud or flashy, but it’s always noticeable.
You’ll know it’s growing in you when:
- You serve without being asked.
- You stop to listen instead of rushing by.
- You offer grace instead of judgment.
- You choose the gentle tone instead of the biting one.
Kindness isn’t random. It’s intentional. It’s a fruit that grows when we stay connected to the Spirit and pay attention to the people around us.
One Step Today
Here’s a simple question for today:
“Who could use a little unexpected kindness from me?”
Send the text. Help carry the load. Speak encouragement. Kindness rarely requires a grand gesture, but it always makes a lasting impact.
