Foster Care Excuses

Have you ever considered becoming a foster family?  Listen to Randy Harling, President of Connie Maxwell Children’s Home, talk about his own experience and an exciting new partnership to help your family serve in this way.

The Parent Pendulum

Parents can either discipline too harsh or too lenient.  Both are dangerous. Enjoy this video?  Check out the growing collection of Family Alter videos!

The Marriage Drift

This sermon clip is from a message at North Side’s 2016 Marriage Conference. When does a marriage begin to drift? Check out this week’s Family Alter.  The sermons for the Marriage Conference will be up later this week.

Praying the Psalms

Prayer life boring? Non-existent? Try this method with your family.   Pray the Psalms I pray through one psalm everyday.  All Scripture is inspired by God (2 Tim. 3:16).  The Bible is God’s Word spoken to us.  The psalms are God’s Word intended for us to speak back to him.  We know not how we ought to speak to God, and …

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Praying for Your Spouse

In this video, Lander University’s BCM Director, Scott Smith, talks about how to pray for your spouse.  Scott’s wife Judy was in an accident years ago that changed their lives, but strengthened their marriage.

No Double Teaming

In marriage, it is easy to go to others to talk about your issues and double-team your spouse. A healthy marriage seeks to address the issue head on.

No “Sorry, But…”

In marriage, it is very easy to justify your action based upon something your spouse did. A mature spouse desires to be reconciled more than desiring to be right.

Never Go to Bed Angry

In marriage, you must learn how to deal with today’s problems today and not let them linger into tomorrow.  Here is a pivotal marriage tip for you – never go to bed angry.

Saving While Spending

As Christmas shopping begins, don’t go into debt trying to please people with temporal trinkets. Here are 5 steps to help you spend wisely this year. Main Points Come up with a budget. Make a list. Determine spending amount. Get creative. Give what lasts. Every spending decision is a spiritual decision.

The Grateful Family

It is hard to believe that Thanksgiving is a few days away.  Before the break-neck pace of December begins, I want to help you gather your family to see four specific things happen in the days to come. Here are some tips to lead your family to become more grateful.

Understand Who Your Spouse Is Becoming

The person you married has changed and will continue to change.  Are you staying aware of who he or she is becoming? This Family Alter video is taken from a developing resource entitled “Just [About] Married.”

Choose Life

In a culture debating pro-life versus pro-choice, how is the Church to respond?

Teaching Younger Women

In this episode of Family Alter, Ruth McWhite shares the power of Titus 2 discipleship which prioritizes teaching younger women.  She shares some of the most effective practices she has used in mentoring young women.

Follow My Lead

Family discipleship is often caught more than taught. Here are some tips to unite together and grow as a family.

Your Wife’s Needs

Your wife has unique needs. According to the book, His Needs, Her Needs, here are her top 5: Affection Intimate Conversation Honesty & Openness Financial Support Family Commitment

Your Husband’s Needs

If you haven’t realized it, your husband is a needy person.  According to research, here is a list of your husband’s top 5 needs in marriage. His Needs, Her Needs In the classic bestseller His Needs, Her Needs, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those …

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Preparing for Marriage

Don’t wait until you have become married or have children to start thinking about how God wants you to live as a family.  Before you get married (or even start dating someone), ask yourself: is this person a help or a hindrance to my desire of following Jesus?

Empty Pursuits

Too many families are exhausted from empty pursuits.  What does God say is important for your family?

How to Change Your Home

You normally think of “Family Altar” as the time when the family gathers together for a devotional.  We believe in the importance of that exercise, but we also believe in a “Family Alter” in which you can make small alterations for home transformation.  We know that many of you simply do not have the time needed to attend every conference, read …

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