A few weeks ago, I was riding Obie and Eli in the Walmart buggy while Amanda was grocery shopping. As I attempted to keep them occupied, we ran into some friends. The boys started to hand out the high-fives to our friends when an older black man that I did not know came up and insisted on getting high-fives himself and then walked off.
One minute later, he came back and interrupted the conversation by pointing to Eli and asking, “Sir, excuse me, but are you mentoring this young boy?”
Before I got to respond to this funny question as this stranger pointed at my tiny 2-year-old, Eli looked up at me and tried to get my attention by saying, “Daddy?”
This man stated, “I’m sorry, is this boy your son?!”
“Yes sir, he is. Both of these boys are my sons.”
“On behalf of all black men, I want like the honor to shake your hand and thank you for taking this boy in. Too many white men are having to step in to take care of black men’s children. Fathers aren’t stepping up to their responsibility hese days.”
“Well, sir,” I replied, “I don’t think it is a black thing, I just think men in general are falling behind regardless of race. I do appreciate you saying that though, because some times my family and I have gotten stares from…”
“You don’t worry about what they think of you! You worry what this boy thinks of you! They look at you because they know they need to be doing something about the needs in this world and they are not. You don’t worry about them! They are jealous because you are actually doing something worthwhile. All this boy needs is a mommy and a daddy and it don’t matter what color they are. This boy has no idea how blessed he is to have you as his father.”
Overwhelmingly humbled at this point, I replied, “Thank you so much for those kind words. I’ll be honest, we originally thought we were doing something noble, but I think we are more blessed for him being in our lives that he is for having us in his life.”
“What made you want to do it?”
“Jesus. He loves us so much, sometimes you just need to ensure someone else can see that love.”
“God bless you, and on behalf of all black men everywhere, I thank you.”
“On behalf of all white men, I thank you.”
Embrace with a former stranger. Another round of high fives. Humbled white man loving his life while driving a white boy and a black boy that are his sons in a Walmart buggy.
Travis Agnew serves as the Lead Pastor of Rocky Creek Church in Greenville, SC. His most recent book is Just (About) Married.
Wow! Very inspirational. Very glad you s
Goosebumps! Thanks so much for sharing, but thank you even more for what you are doing. What a wonderful exchange between two strangers. Love to see how God works! Beaut
That is so touching Travis. Yall are doing a great thing, and I can see all the joy this precious boy has brought into your lives. Yall are truly blessed by God to have 2 beautiful chi
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Thank you Travis, God Bless you, Amanda and those precious
Wow! Very inspirational. Very glad you shared.
Goosebumps! Thanks so much for sharing, but thank you even more for what you are doing. What a wonderful exchange between two strangers. Love to see how God works! Beautiful!!
That is so touching Travis. Yall are doing a great thing, and I can see all the joy this precious boy has brought into your lives. Yall are truly blessed by God to have 2 beautiful children!
What a touching story. Thank od for special people like you who love children no matter their color. You truly are blessed. God Bles
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That's so awesome, Travis!
Thank you Travis, God Bless you, Amanda and those precious boys!
I would have broke down in tears if I was you..your a strong man & I have great respect for the way you choose to follow God! God Bless!
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What a touching story. Thank od for special people like you who love children no matter their color. You truly are blessed. God Bless you!
Praise God for bringing glory to His name through your family.
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Amen.
Thank you for sharing!
Thanks for sharing that Trav. What a great story and a great testimony to our God!
Travis, that must have been an amazing experience! Thanks for sharing it with us!! Ive got goosebumps now lol.
Travis, that must have been an amazing experience! Thanks for sharing it with us!! Ive got goosebumps no
Travis, that must have been an amazing experience! Thanks for sharing it with us!! Ive got goosebumps now lol.
This brought tears to my eyes. I have three sons, who we adopted, that are multiracial. We all need to step up. Thanks.