Role Reversal

We live in a time when parents are using coloring books and children are using day planners. If you don’t get the weight of that statement, let me unpack it.  Adult coloring books are becoming a growing phenomenon right now.  And I’m not going to throw shade at it.  I enjoy coloring with my kids.  I love pretending I am …

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Counter Culture

David Platt’s Counter Culture is a great read.  In a time when our culture is polarizing over significant topics, Platt gives a thorough chapter to these issues.  Biblical and passionate, he handles these topics so well. Out of all the fantastic contributions this book makes, there is none greater than this truth: As a Christian, I am to be concerned …

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How Do I Recognize Abuse? [Ministry Mandated Reporting]

Due to having to deal with abusive situations in my years as a pastor, I learned a lot by asking questions of friends who deal with such issues in their professions.  I was shocked to be educated on certain things. I decided to pull together an expert panel who could help churches and ministries navigate through the legal requirements concerning abuse. …

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What Is Abuse? [Ministry Mandated Reporting]

I learned a lot in seminary, but there are some things they don’t train you for in seminary. One of those issues is concerning how pastors are to handle situations relating to abuse.  Many pastors believe a myth that they don’t have to report something that is shared in a counseling session.  That is simply untrue. Some pastors and churches …

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Why We Chose Homeschooling (And Why You Shouldn’t)

The Agnews have been homeschooling for the last three years, and I really haven’t talked about it much.  Besides the video below that I made on the boys’ first day of kindergarten chronicling their long walk to school, I really haven’t opened up about why we chose this path. Homeschooling can be a divisive topic in our society, and so I haven’t made a …

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When Hatred Casts the Ballot

I don’t like to blog about too many political issues, so this post will be brief and clear.  After Super Tuesday’s unsurprising results, I want to share just a few thoughts in a few hundred words. In this election, many people are voting against what they hate rather than for what they love. A common theme you hear on every …

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Planned Parenthood and the Backward Ethics of America

In a strange turn of events today, a grand jury indicted two people who pretended to want to purchase aborted fetal body parts rather than the organization that was selling them.  Months ago, a group’s sting operation provided footage that showed Planned Parenthood employees admitting to illegal activity concerning partial birth abortion procedures and the potential profits. So, fetuses that are …

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Under Our Skin: A Conversation About Race

The Gospel Coalition, Benjamin Watson, and Darrin Patrick joined together on the one-year anniversary of the Ferguson, Missouri court case decision for an honest conversation about racial tension and how the Rescuer, Jesus Christ, brings reconciliation to all. Watch the replay above.

What’s a Church Supposed to Do With Halloween?

It’s that time of year again.  The leaves are falling, the temperature is dropping, and flannel abounds everywhere you turn.  While there are many favorite events and experiences associated with the Fall season, one of my favorites is North Side’s annual Fall Festival. For years, this event has been a great night for people inside and outside of our church …

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Implications of the Ashley Madison Hack

Our family was in Charleston when I first read the news about the Ashley Madison hack.  When our clan was stuffed together in a hotel room and I was reading news on my phone as they young ones fell asleep, I came across this story and was blown away. If you haven’t heard the story, here’s the rundown: Ashley Madison …

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No, Mr. President

The video above is from a John Piper sermon delivered in 2009.  In light of the news today, it has been a serious reminder for me to: Speak out for those who have had their voice removed from them Pray for our President Pray that this news will cause a change to happen with him and other leaders

Partial-Birth Abortions to Sell Baby Parts

I have no words.  I am physically sick right now.  When are we going to wake up? If you haven’t seen the video from the sting operation that revealed a level of wickedness many didn’t think possible, you can watch it above. Warning: it is disturbing at the callous nature of this conversation. So, fetuses that are too useless to …

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Understanding Youth Culture Today

We had a great time this weekend at the Parenting Teenagers Workshop.  In our area, many churches come together during Disciple Now weekend for the times of worship and fellowship.  As I talked with Ben Hjalmer, I asked how we could make this a more family-equipping weekend.  What normally happens in Disciple Now is some great discipleship moments for teenagers but …

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The Danger of Worldliness

I tend to look at the shape of our world and the morals of people who aren’t following Jesus and think that I am a pretty good guy.  I look around at how blatantly sinful other people are, and my “respectable” and “quiet” sins don’t seem as severe, and gradually I just get complacent. I look at other people’s standard …

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Be the Protest

I was sitting in a hotel room with my family when the verdict was announced.  I had the TV quiet enough not to wake the children as I read the subtitles over the paired videos of President Obama calling for peace on one side and watching Ferguson completely unravel on the other side. As tears filled my eyes, I longed for heaven. …

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Alpha-Bits and Creation

The craziest thing happened the other morning. I had overslept and was chaotically running around the house trying to get ready in time for work.  As I ran by the kitchen table, I saw the most peculiar thing. A box of Alpha-Bits had been overturned on the table, some of the cereal had spilled out, and it actually spelled this …

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How Far Is Too Far?

In my time as a pastor, I have been asked many different questions.  Without a doubt, one of the most frequently asked questions is this: So how far is too far? In most contexts, people are asking it in relation towards dating and what is allowed physically in a relationship. The problem with that question is that it is a self-referentially …

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I Kinda Agree with Victoria Osteen

When Victoria Osteen’s comments concerning worshiping God came out days ago, I was shocked like many of you.  I refrained from posting any comments because I really wanted to take it in and process it all. If you are one of the few that have not seen it, the clip below is her comments during a worship service a couple …

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Ferguson Is Closer Than You Realize

Moving through a busy week, I have only caught brief glimpses of the news.  It seems like it would have been a great week to turn it off altogether because of the overwhelming nature concerning the state of our world. This week, persecution towards Christians and violence has escalated in Iraq, comedian Robin Williams committed suicide, and unarmed teenager Michael …

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You Should Be Yahweh’s Witnesses Instead of Jehovah’s Witnesses

My dialogue with some Jehovah’s Witnesses has continued as of late.  After a couple of encounters, I sent my new friends an email with some questions and asked for their leaders to help me understand some discrepancies within the New World Translation. When they showed up back at the house last week, they said they didn’t have adequate time to talk about …

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What LeBron’s Return to Cleveland Says About Each of Us

A picture says a thousand words. A simple snapshot is able to archive a moment, capture an emotion, or recall a memory.  It’s an amazing feat. Take the arena of basketball.  I can show you a picture of a player in an event and it will cause you possibly to remember the moment and recall your personal feelings about that …

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Should Patriotic Music Be Used in Church?

Mondays for ministers are often unpredictable.  You really don’t have adequate time to process what God did among your church on Sunday before a whole new set of challenges are waiting for you on Monday. My Monday mornings usually consist of addressing anything that needed to be addressed from yesterday, sending out thank you’s to those who served, scheduling my calendar …

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Legend Status

If you press pause on your DVR, you realize why USA remained in the fight as long as we did. Tim Howard is a legend.  Great run, USA.

“Authentic” Spoken Word by KB

I’m a fan of gospel music.  That is, music that focuses on the gospel.  Regardless of the art form, I always appreciate any genre that explains the truths of God’s Word (Col. 3:16) and does so in an excellent manner (Ps. 33:3). A few years ago I was introduced to Reach Records’ KB who was performing at a Passion conference. …

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Where Fred Phelps Is Spending Eternity

If you weren’t aware, Fred Phelps has died. (CNN) — Fred Phelps — the founding pastor of a Kansas church known for its virulently anti-gay protests at public events, including military funerals — has died, the church said Thursday.  The 84-year-old died of natural causes at 11:15 p.m. Wednesday, according to church spokesman Steve Drain.  Phelps founded Westboro Baptist Church of …

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The Bible According to Hollywood

I have heard mixed reviews over the weekend concerning the Son of God movie that was released.  The work of Mark Burnett and Roma Downey has been anticipated by many following the History Channel’s The Bible series which was very successful.  I have heard three camps of thought concerning the movie: “It’s the most incredible thing I have ever seen.” …

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The Edgefield Earthquake and the End of Times

Friday night, Amanda and I were finishing up for the night when our house began to shake significantly.  When any type of strange phenomena happens, Amanda repeatedly yells, “Trav?  Trav?  Trav!”  This time was no different.  With fear in her eyes, she began yelling my name and jumped out of her chair and said, “Trav, what is that?” The primary …

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46 Things Most Parents Don’t Know About Their Children and Technology

  Last night, I got the opportunity to teach two groups of parents at North Side concerning children and technology.  We simply scratched the surface concerning education and protection of their children. Most of the things I shared were enlightening.  Technology and media change so rapidly, it is hard for a parent to keep up.  And while 20 years ago, …

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We May Go to Jail Together

In the times we live, it is hard to have respectful disagreements.  In this age of tolerance, people are intolerant if you say your beliefs are correct.  There is no absolute truth except the absolute truth that there is none (are you getting the problem here?). In these current cultural wars, oftentimes, theological differences are accepted for the sake of …

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Is Jesus Really the Only Way?

Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.”     -John 14:6 (NASB) His name was Yohei.  It was the year 2000 in Tokyo, Japan.  He told our mission team that Jesus, Allah, or anybody else who claimed to be God was probably correct.  They all …

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Christian Break-Up Lines

A few months ago, I wrote a post concerning Christian Pick-Up Lines.  Since that time, I received some other lines from readers and updated the post.  It was full of over-spiritualized sentiments of why two believers should be dating. Maybe the lines worked for you.  You got a date, but you now find yourself like someone I went to college with …

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The State of the Present Church

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After 392 A.D., the Church began to view the people in the Roman Empire as having accessibility to the gospel, thus the fervency of the Christian witness within the jurisdiction of the Roman Empire dwindled.  Jesus commissioned the early Church to serve as His witnesses beginning in their present location and moving outwards to the ends of the earth (Acts 1:8).  Until the Christianization of Rome, the Church had been faithful in this mission.  Unfortunately, Christians began to regard missions as only taking place outside of their homeland, and they would depart their own country to evangelize.  Some missiologists hold that the present Church has inherited the mindset that evangelism transpires solely outside of one’s immediate geographical living area.  Consequently, evangelism rarely happens around the area of an individual church body.

Evangelicals have noticed the endangered position of the American Church.  In a recent study, the yearly requirements for a church body to be deemed as evangelistic were to have twenty-six people become Christians under their church’s influence and to have one person baptized for every twenty members.

With that criteria, the surveyors accredited less than four percent of Southern Baptist churches as evangelistic.

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Roman Christianization

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Christianity had suffered greatly under Rome’s persecution, but the Church had advanced remarkably in influence and size composing ten to fifteen percent of the Roman population early in the fourth century.  In A.D. 312, Emperor Constantine waged war with his rival for the throne, Maxentius.  Emperor Constantine prayed to the “Unconquered Son,” the Roman patron deity, for assistance in battle.  Supposedly, Constantine and his army witnessed a cross ablaze in the sky on which they read the words, “In this sign conquer.”  In his sleep that night, Constantine claimed that he was commanded to distinguish his soldiers with the monogram of Christ to ensure victory.  Upon applying the monogram, Constantine won the battle at the Milvian Bridge due to Maxentius’s drowning before the battle was even underway.

After this impressive victory, Constantine claimed that he was “under the tutelage of the God of Christianity.”

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Persecution of the Early Church

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Jesus told His disciples that the world would hate them in the same way that the world hated Jesus (John 15:18), and He foretold of a time when people would kill His disciples and believe that they were doing a service to God (John 16:2).  Jesus never minimized the cost that those following Him would have to pay.  He clearly prepared them for the trials that would come with involving themselves with Christ’s cause.  While Jesus was on earth, His closest disciple, Peter, declared that he would follow Christ, even if all the other disciples would fall away (Matt. 26:33).  After Peter’s denial of Christ, the future of the Church’s leadership appeared unable to continue Christ’s work in Jesus’ absence.

Conversely, Peter proved to be a bold witness for Christ after Jesus’ resurrection.  In danger of imprisonment or death, Peter amazed the religious officials with his confidence in their midst, and they recognized Peter’s affiliation with Christ (Acts 4:13).  Before this instance, the religious leaders had also been amazed at Jesus’ theological presentations (John 7:15), since He had no apparent mentor.  Regardless of threats, Peter and the other disciples became insubordinate to the laws of the Jewish community, and they vowed to continue preaching in the name of Jesus (acts 4:19-20).  The religious leaders listened to the advice of Gamaliel the Elder, the tutor of Paul (Acts 22:3), and they decided that if this movement was not from God, the people adhering to Jesus’ teaching would eventually dissipate in the aftermath of Christ’s death.  The court punished Peter and the apostles with him, and the officials warned the disciples no longer to preach in Jesus’ name (Acts. 5:38-40).  Gamaliel and the other leaders trusted that God, and not themselves, would bring about an end to this current movement.

Martyrdom became routine for those holding to the Christian faith.

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Christian Persecution

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“Indeed, all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will be persecuted” (2 Tim. 3:12).

In his last recorded epistle, Paul attempted to prepare Timothy and other Church leaders for the coming persecution that they would face as Christians.  Nearing the imminent culmination of Paul’s ministry and life, Paul instructed his son in the faith, Timothy, to continue “fighting the good fight” (2 Tim. 4:7), relinquishing the mantle of Paul’s ministry of spreading the gospel to Timothy.

During the time when Jesus lived on earth, He frequently admonished His unbelieving disciples of the coming persecution that He would endure and the persecution that the disciples themselves would soon face in the wake of Christ’s absence.  Luke recorded numerous events in the Book of Acts concerning Christianity’s opponents administering beatings, imprisonments, and executions to Jesus’ disciples.  Evangelicals and historians have written volumes of literature describing the accounts of Christians who have been persecuted for their faith in Jesus.

As God built on the foundation of His Church with men and women who were aware of their possible and probable death by their association with Christ, disciples boldly witnessed to all people concerning the grace of God, and many people were being saved (Acts 2:47).  In countries where persecution of Christians is still prevalent, the Church is bold in witnessing and dynamic in growth; in countries where Christianity is allowed or even encouraged, the Church is often stagnate and declining.

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Christian Pick-Up Lines

  Something happens when Christians start to date.  There are two extremes.  One group tries to over spiritualize everything, and the other group unfortunately  just takes God completely out of the equation. Let me show you what it looks like when somebody is trying to over-spiritualize a situation. Just a simple Google search of “Christian pick up lines” will show …

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You Promised Us Peace on Earth

Almost didn’t write this song.  Definitely close to finishing project and not recording it.  Didn’t want an album full of bluegrass Christmas songs to be interrupted by an original that didn’t connect. Surprisingly, the song “Peace on Earth” has meant so much to our congregation in light of personal struggles and in light of national events like the shooting in …

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What Could Have Stopped the Newtown Massacre?

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Like the rest of the country, I’m attempting to obtain some sense of normalcy since the Newtown shooting.  When Adam Lanza barged into an elementary school and killed 26 unsuspecting children and adults, the country is taken to a rightful standstill.  The only person not engaged in the conversation in America is the one we would like to receive answers from – Adam Lanza.

In the ensuing moments, our minds linger elsewhere.  For some of us, we thought of our children.  For some of us, we thought of policy changes.  For all of us, we naturally went to what what have fixed this situation.

Well, what could have stopped the Newtown Massacre?

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If I Was in the Presidential Debate

I am not debating in the presidential debate tonight.  I am not running for office.  But you have to give credit to two men who desire the job of POTUS given the status of our country.  Whether you believe one or both of these men to be egotistical maniacs, gluttons for punishment, or eager ambassadors, they both want this job badly.

So badly that the 2nd debate was unnerving for many Americans.  The constant interruptions.  The disregard for boundaries.  The snide comments.

And now, we arrive at the 3rd debate tonight.  I already have my mind made up concerning how I am voting.  And so have you.  And so has the rest of America.  Tonight’s debate is likely not to change many minds as much as it will fire up both camps to blitz Facebook and Twitter with everyone’s biased review of the men’s performances.

I tried to imagine how I would respond if I was being portrayed by my opponent as a liar to millions of people.  Sure, I would want to interrupt and set the record straight.  I wouldn’t want to be characterized by something I am not.

And so, it made me wonder: “If I was in the presidential debate tonight, how would I close out my argument?”  Here’s a shot:

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Women’s Rights

With all the political conversation going on these days, there is plenty to argue about.  I don’t want to argue.  I don’t want to debate.  Our country is in trouble, and no political leader can fix what is truly broken. There are so many issues, but you must decide what THE ISSUE is going to be for your this election …

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