Our families are consumed with pursuing achievements and losing each other in the process. Discover biblical principles necessary to further your family toward God’s ideal.
The Dangers
- Many homes claim to follow a Bible they do not know, and they are surrendering to cultural and peer pressures.
- Marriages are suffering due to a lack of time and intentionality to grow in necessary ways.
- We often blame our children’s spiritual condition on the culture we cannot control rather than the family we can alter.
- We fill our calendars with priorities that will not improve our spiritual conditions.
- We have expected the church to do what God expects the home to do.
- The church has replaced parents with programs, and we are losing our children one generation at a time.
The Architect [Psalm 127:1-2]
- What happens in your house is just as important as what happens in God’s house.
- The most critical spiritual environment is the one in which you live.
- God’s ideal is when a family of God partners with the people of God for the discipleship of every generation.
- Christian homes are in danger when we succumb to worthless pursuits and frivolous concerns.
The Occupants [Psalm 127:3-5]
- Children are a blessing, not a burden.
- The family and the church must work together to sharpen the two sides of each arrow.
- A trained warrior understands that a sharpened arrow can go where he cannot.
- Every arrow needs to be sharpened, aimed, and released.
The Assessment
Marriage
- Are we complacently drifting or intentionally connecting?
- What are the greatest sources of our conflict right now?
- What are steps we could take to address those areas?
Parenting
- How pleased are we with our children’s spiritual conditions?
- What do we need to prepare them for in their next stages of life?
- What change would make the biggest impact in your relationship with your children?
Finances
- What would God’s assessment of our finances indicate about our priorities?
- Where would we like to be financially in five years?
- What steps do we need to take now to get there?
Schedule
- What does our schedule say about our family?
- What things do you wish you had margin to do as a family?
- What things might you need to reduce in order to see that happen?
Vision
- What would people say about our family right now?
- What would God say about the health of our family right now?
- What type of legacy do we wish our family to leave?
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Travis Agnew serves as the Lead Pastor of Rocky Creek Church in Greenville, SC. His most recent book is Just (About) Married.
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