Do Buffet-Styled Churches Honor God?

For years, I have bought into the church growth principle that the more choices you give people in a church, the more successful the church will be.

To agree with that principle, you must gauge a church’s success by the number of people who stay at that church.  But is that true success?

Here are the courses that the American church is serving up:

  • Worship – traditional, contemporary, blended, cutting edge, emergent, ancient future, classic, golden, choir, band, hard rock, country western, southern gospel, chandeliers, go-bos, expensive organ, expensive guitar, etc.
  • Discipleship – Sunday school, community groups, small groups, Bible fellowship classes, on-campus, in-homes, co-ed, single, married, guys only, girls only, by hobby-interest, by age, by life situations, etc.
  • Preaching – coat and tie, jeans and t-shirt, podium, table, old, young, hip, wise, screen, video, sermon, message, talk
  • Family Ministries – discipleship times, creative programs, glorified babysitting, “community” sports programs with a side of Christ, men’s ministry, women’s ministry, single, divorced, newlywed, with kids, with small kids, with fussy kids, for fussy kids, puppets, Awanas, GAs, RAs, children’s choir

And the list could go on.

  1. Is God honored when we explain what church we belong to by describing the type of music we like?
  2. Is God honored when we defend our group’s methods within the church rather than celebrating the diversity of the whole church?
  3. Is God honored when we try to woo members from other churches because this program is better than that program?

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Does Your Worship Team Need a LIFT?

You know the feeling.  It’s worship practice, and there is something in the room.  Call it stagnation, complacency, hitting a wall, getting settled, or maybe something else, but you know when you work with your worship team and it just seems like you aren’t getting anywhere.  You’ve hit the bottom.

That’s why you need a lift.

On March 26th (UPDATED DATE: we had some scheduling conflicts, and pushing it back makes more sense) we will have a free worship workshop held at North Side Baptist in Greenwood, SC.  At Lift, you can bring your whole team and get equipped on how you can lift your worship, your team expectations, and your team’s abilities.

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Passion 2011 Recap

Still processing all that Jesus did in me and around me at Passion 2011.  I needed to go a day late due to church responsibilities, but college students were texting me telling me how incredible everything was before I even got there.  Being able to worship alongside our students and join them in giving sacrificially to worthy causes was such a fantastic way to begin the year.

I could go on and on about the programming of Passion.  Who wouldn’t love to hear Louie Giglio, Beth Moore, Francis Chan, John Piper, Andy Stanley, and David Platt speak?  Who wouldn’t be overjoyed to be led in worship by Chris Tomlin, David Crowder Band, Matt Redman, Charlie Hall, Kristian Stanfill, Christy Nockels, and other special guests?  No one would deny the energy getting 22,000 college students together for lively worship with incredible, impacting media presentations.  Everyone was impacted by the profound presentations of the needs in the world.

All of that was great, but it wasn’t my favorite part.

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Dust of the Ground Video Shoot – Preferences

Wednesday, we got to work with the talented group, Dust of the Ground.  Jeremy and Austin are the duo that make up this talented media company.  Since I’m friends with Jeremy (Jeff Lethco’s son), I’ve seen some of the fantastic projects they have finished.  When I saw how talented they were, I knew they might be the answer to an idea I had.

I’ve had all these worship instructional video ideas in my head for a while now.  3 minute clips that could be used in churches to drive home a concept concerning worship during a service or at the beginning of a message.  By taking a biblical principle concerning worship (true worship, lifting of hands, why we sing, etc.), and giving a mini-message through the power of film, I thought we might could go further faster on some of these areas which churches struggle.

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Knowing His Thoughts

We had practice on Wednesday for Sunday, and everything went great except for the feeling I needed to change things up.  So Friday, I sent an updated list for this morning.  I wanted to scale things back and really let our voices fill up the room with praise for our King.  I’m so thankful for a team that doesn’t complain when I send them an email and say we need to go in a different direction.  Each team member jumped in there this morning prepared and knocked it out of the park!  Great job!

Today, we worshiped to:

In addition to a great worship time, Ken also gave us a word of testimony concerning how the City has already impacted him.  This is an online tool that our church is starting to use to communicate with one another.  If you want to join the early group getting connected on the City before our January 9th launch, go here.

OG (the David Denton) also gave a word of testimony for our church.  After losing his father this year, he went through shock and pain.  But OG chose to believe in the hope we have in Christ.  He cited that he was able to overcome due to the church surrounding him and caring for him.  Such a great word from such a sharp dressed guy in his shiny white shoes!

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Vocal Warmups for Worship Groups

Last night for our worship team development time as we focused on capability – leading with excellence, I decided to bring in a vocal expert: my wife.  Amanda has her Master’s in music education and focused on vocal pedagogy.  So, she got us moving and thinking about some ways that we can use our vocals more effectively at the beginning of practice.  We had all our musicians and techies go through the exercises, because it will help everyone out.  Don’t worry, our vocalists are going to be working on the soundboard soon.

Here are some of her great notes that she gave us last night:

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Worship Wars

Many churches are involved in what church growth experts have labeled “worship wars.” Not wanting to lose a particular style of music, many churches find themselves in a battle to maintain their preferential style.  It’s more than contemporary vs. traditional.  It has to do with instrumentation, volume, genre, layout, lighting, etc.  Unfortunately, many churches split over such things. Question: how …

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“That Was ‘Good’ Worship”

I’ve been so humbled by so many comments from Sunday’s worship services.  People have gone out of their way to say how impacting the time was, how we should have just kept singing for a few more hours, how tears of joy were flooding their eyes as we sang to our King.  Most of people commented, “that was ‘good’ worship.”

I’m not gonna lie.  I thought we were about to sing the roof off that place all 3 times Sunday morning.  I personally almost sang myself back into tonsillectomy rehab cause I just couldn’t hold it back.  But was it really “good” worship?

Sure, I loved the song selections.  The band was smoking and played the dynamics just right.  The singers nailed their parts.  The choir sounded like an angelic force to be reckoned with.  The congregation was outsinging all the microphones on stage.  It was loud.  It was engaging.  It was powerful.

But was it really “good” worship?

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One Worship Team’s Task

“And he [Jesus] had to pass through Samaria.” -John 4:4

It was the shortest of ways for Jesus to travel. Traveling through Samaria would be shortest distance geographically, but most Jews would bypass that city because of their disdain for the Samaritans. Racial stereotypes kept most religious Jewish leaders out of that city.

But Jesus had to go through that way. He had work there.

In that city, he didn’t feed the masses or heal numbers of people, he spent time with a loose woman by a well. She had been married numerous times and was living with a man who was not her husband at the time. As Jesus was sitting by the well, she came his way, and she would never be the same again.

In this amazing passage, John chronicles Jesus’ uncanny knack for reaching people far away from God. As he draws her in, she begins to realize she is not dealing with your average passerby. When she realizes this fact, she begins to discuss one of Scripture’s worship wars. These feuds about how worship should be done didn’t start when drums were brought into a sanctuary; they’ve been around a while.

“Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.”

“Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. You worship what you do now know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth” (John 4:20-24).

Did you catch it? She was more focused on when and where and how worship should take place. Worship happens when it’s in this location in a certain type of way and it doesn’t happen when it’s different than what is expected. Jesus reveals that worship cannot be confined to preferences. It is not manmade. It is not manufactured. It is a lifestyle. It is on God’s preferences and not our own.

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One Worship

Today, we worshiped to: The Longer I Serve Him The Heart of Worship – Matt Redman Sing to the King – Billy Foote Amazing Grace – North Side Worship How Great is Our God – Bethany Dillon How Great Thou Art – Paul Baloche 3 services, 2 buildings, 1 flowsheet.  One worship. Today was incredible.  After Michael George gave us …

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Worship Vocal Workshop

Due to me being unable to lead worship practice this week, we had a guest lecturer, Paul Baloche, to teach on worship vocals.  As we are focusing on worship value #3: capability – leading with excellence, Paul provides some great tips on leading worship as a vocal team.  Hope you enjoy!

Pass the Microphone

You may or may not have heard, but I’m getting my tonsils and adenoids taken out next week.   I was reminded why on Sunday.  As I woke up, my throat was so dry and painful that I could barely sing by the time I got to church.

The good thing was I didn’t have to sing that much.

As worship pastor at North Side, I really never sing “lead” on every song we do.  I’m only the lead on a few songs of our worship CDs.  Visiting ministers have asked me why, that as the worship pastor, am I not leading all, or even most, of the songs and everyone else singing backup?

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Tis the Season to Be Involved

Since Christmas decorations started going up in stores 3 months ago, I guess it’s time to start thinking Christmas time around the ol’ church house as well.  Our worship team has been doing some praying and planning as of late, and what we have realized is if we are going to pull off what we have in mind for the …

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Some Day Soon – Storytellers

Some Day Soon” is the last track on the Overcome album.  It is kind of a funny story how it came about.  One day, the power at the office went out.  We had no electricity, internet, or phone service for the day.  This was around the time we were trying to finish up tracking for Overcome.  I cleared the whiteboard and tried to finalize track listing.  As I came close to finishing, I realized there wasn’t a blatant song about the hope with Christ’s return and our trip home.  Elements were throughout the album, but it wasn’t explicit anywhere.

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Tolerating Mediocre Talent in Church

We’ve all been there.  Sunday morning, the soloist gets up to perform the special music.  It’s not that it’s not your style, it’s the fact that it hurts.  This person simply cannot sing.  For whatever reason, they got the chance to sing a solo, and you are wishing they were singing so low you couldn’t hear them (sorry, I couldn’t …

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Present Help – Storytellers

This edition of storytellers from the Overcome album focuses on a song called “Present Help.”  This is the 3rd recording project this song has been used on.  I actually wrote this song in college.  I started working on it in the piano lab around 1999 or 2000 (whoa, I’m getting old).

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Worship You – Storytellers

  “Worship is a way to live rather than something to do.  Walking with the Lord makes us overflow with His praises!” -Angela McCall As lead vocalist on this track, Angela has really taken this song to another level.  She has brought so much passion and direction for the song. The song was written as a desire to write a …

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Immanuel – Storytellers

Today’s storytellers is the song “Immanuel.” I wrote this song back in 2006 and recorded it in house, but rerecorded it on my “Coming Home” solo project released earlier this year.  The song fit too well with the “Overcome” theme not to include it.  So we remixed it and took away my background vocals and let Jodie Shirley add her …

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Don’t Give Up – Storytellers

Our entire band’s favorite track on “Overcome” is one that none of them played on – it’s track #11, “Don’t Give Up.” This track, is a sermon remix to a message Jeff preached on May 23rd entitled, “The Hope for the Suffering Church.” On that day, a conversation between John Kennerly and myself solidified the “Overcome” focus for the album. …

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Never Seen the Righteous Forsaken – Storytellers

While the “Overcome” CD is officially released, I wanted to continue to share some of the stories behind the songs. “Never Seen the Righteous Forsaken” was literally a last minute song to add to the project.  During the mix, we decided to remove one song from the lineup which provided a musical vacuum towards the end of the project.  Written …

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Overcome Recap

Words can’t even begin to express my joy from Overcome last night.  God showed up big, and I was just humbled at how worshipful the event was last night.  Where do I begin to say thanks? Jesus – You are the true Overcomer.  You bring hope to the hopeless, and You were the guest of honor last night. We were …

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Overcome

I am blown away by what God did tonight. I am humbled that I serve along such quality people. I love being a part of His church. We will overcome.

Nothing is Impossible – Storytellers

“Nothing is Impossible” was written during our adoption process.  As we looked at the huge obstacles concerning timing, situation, circumstances, finances, etc., the process seemed impossible…for us. But with God, there was nothing to it. “For nothing is impossible with God.” -Luke 1:37 Amanda, Obadiah, and myself would often play this melody on the home piano and remind ourselves of …

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11:59 – Storytellers

11:59 started as a joke. I make up songs for the boys all the time. As we were praying for all the details to get ironed out concerning Eli’s homecoming, Obie and I wrote this song. Some details concerning the adoption were huge obstacles to overcome plus I had been praying about other big circumstances in some people’s lives. As …

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Wait for the Lord – Storytellers

Guest Blogger: John Kennerly “Wait for the Lord” was one of those songs that seemed to write itself. At the time, I had no idea that I would be throwing it into the hat for inclusion in what would become North Side’s Overcome recording project and how well it would fit into the overarching theme of the project. It truly …

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Unite Us Together – Storytellers

When North Side started the “5 Things That Will Kill This Church” series, I wanted a worship song for a church to sing together.  Most worship songs are written to sing together, but I really wanted it to be something you sang acknowledging those singing around you. To write it, I went to the descriptions of the early church in …

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The Cross of Calvary – Storytellers

“The Cross of Calvary” was a song written with the purpose of writing a modern day hymn.  I wanted to show how the cross was not an afterthought but was a part of the whole plan from the beginning.  The cross was the plan from the very start. I did a lot of phrases in the chorus that showed the …

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Worthy – Storytellers

There are songs that seem to write themselves and there are songs that require a lot of work.  ”Worthy” was one of those work songs.  While certain parts of it came easily, other parts, I could never find the right balance of making it dynamic yet congregational friendly. I put it on the shelf for a while and revisited it …

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Overcome – Storytellers

As the songs for the next recording project came together, it was evident that God had brought about a theme.  All the songs that were coming together had to do with the fact that life is hard, but we will make it.  As I started to put the songs all on paper, I realized there wasn’t a big opener anthem. …

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Hold On – Storytellers

In the days leading up to the “Overcome” worship night, I wanted to present you with some of the stories behind the songs.  Each day, I will give a little background on the song and also give you a snippet to listen to. Sunday, Peggy led us in a song entitled “Hold On.”  I have been messing around with this …

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Overcome – Less Than 2 Weeks Away

It’s hard to believe that Overcome is less than 2 weeks away.  Our worship event is coming together to be an unbelievable night of worship and celebrating the fact that we have true hope.  It all begins at 6pm on Sunday evening, October 10th at North Side Baptist Church. Here’s some important info: Invite – Spend some time getting people …

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Overcome Track Listing

I’ve been a slave driver to North Side Worship the last few months, but it’s going to be well worth it.  In addition to extra worship leading events, we’ve been cranking it out in the studio.  As final mixes are being tweaked today and tomorrow, I want to provide you with a track listing of the tunes on the project. …

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Storytellers – Worthy

Sunday, we introduced a worship song entitled “Worthy” that will be on our upcoming “Overcome” release (10.10.10).  There are songs that seem to write themselves and there are songs that require a lot of work.  “Worthy” was one of those work songs.  While certain parts of it came easily, other parts, I could never find the right balance of making …

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Overcome: A Night of Worship & Hope

A Night of Worship and Hope Come join us on October 10 at 6:00 p.m. here at North Side Baptist.  This will be a time of worship through music, prayer, and testimony.  Come and find out what it means to Overcome! This night of worship will help people who need hope find the next step.  We are inviting all types …

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A Week With North Side Worship

As a part of the training I provided at the Worship Summit this weekend, I put together this video from my phone to show what a week looks like as I prepare a bunch of musicians, vocalists, and technicians to prepare to lead worship. Watch the behind the scenes footage of how North Side Worship gets ready to lead each …

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Worship Summit Recap

We had an absolute blast at the Worship Summit this weekend.  I am still processing all that took place.  Our team, North Side Worship, got to lead worship 4 times for a training event for worship leaders all over the state.  I then taught 4 sessions (5 Things That Will Kill Your Worship Team, The Big Idea, Cookie Cutter Worship, …

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Leaving for the Worship Summit

Gear is packed, presentations ready, and our team is rowdy as we leave for the Worship Summit this afternoon. I was honored and humbled when our group was asked to lead worship and I was asked to do the training at a worship training event for the South Carolina Baptist Convention.  Today and tomorrow, our North Side Worship group will …

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Storytellers – The Cross of Calvary

Last Sunday, we led with a new song entitled “The Cross of Calvary.”  After writing a modern-day hymn for our upcoming CD, “Overcome,” Amy Cromer’s voice was just made for this song.  Her rendition of it on Sunday and on the recording just blew me away.  What I love about her connection to this song is that she lives this …

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Upcoming Worship Events

Last night I shared some upcoming events with our worship team (afterwards, they surprised me with a birthday cake – they win).  We have some big stuff on the horizon and I wanted to make sure you were in the know. Worship Team Training – Aug. 11 – In two weeks, we are going to have a time of training …

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